puh-leez.
People have come to rely on segulot and that is not how we are supposed to be.
I also disagree with the people just say, “daven..” obviously!! We all daven. Sometimes it feels like that’s not enough.
I did TWO cycles of the shmiras halashon and i am still single…so tell me it “wasn’t my time,” so tell the same to pushutayid.
We can try what we want. Hashem is the one in charge. Hishtadlus obviously is important, too, but I don’t want to broach the bechira argument…