wolf
that’s very kind of you, and very big.
i have nothing against “you” i just don’t like ppl posting things against halacha, where due to the vast quantity of readers here, many can come out with the wrong halacha.
why we don’t we switch from “what’s wrong with it” or “it’s not cooking so it’s fine” as a statement of fact, to a question?
“we can’t cook for them, but can we make the food beforehand?”
i think that will make everyone happy, especially being there is nothing wrong with a question.
on a side note, in the infinite wisdom of the moderators, they deleted posts i had, where there was nothing wrong in it, one of them said clearly you’re not an apikoros because you claim to have self-esteem issues. i said you “would be” (never said you are) an apikoros if you had the attitude of, so i’m a rasha who cares.
hope this all makes sense, with nothing being capitalized.