WolfishMusings
your post brings tears to the eyes.
still assur to invite a goy for a yom tov meal.
the bottom line for many of these topics, and writers. the torah is a book of rules, we don’t pick and choose based on what makes us feel good, or because we think we’re doing the right thing, or it seems like the right thing to do.
many a good intention led to wars!
yes it’s hard to know what to do in all cases, and that’s why we must i repeat must be close to a real rav to ask these shalos.
some of them very tricky or maybe controversial, some are blatant halachos that we might not be aware of (like having a goy by a yom tov meal).