I think what many who post are trying to say is that Get and or divorce should not be the first choice. We unlike the Catholics have a method to dissolve the marriage which is via a Get. This should be used rarely. I also don’t want couples to be in a relationship where they are hating each other.
I think many parents cater to their child’s every need and after they are married they expect their spouse to do the same. When this doesn’t happen fights ensue which then may lead to divorce.