Thank you Syag, btw that is how abusive people operate. They take a normal conversation where people are stating what they observe and twist it into something else. Making the other person question reality.
” Another little tidbit of statistics is that divorces are sought in about 75% of the cases by the wife,”
That is because, according to a gittin dayan I knew personally, who isn’t with us any longer, 90% of the divorce in his bais din were the husband’s ‘fault’.