So, Droid, are you saying one should stay with a spouse that abuses them so that the children can stay in an intact marriage. What about those couples who either have done a lot of therapy or have a partner who refuses, we should just allow for it? How would you suggest one implement a one sided change in this case? The kids are far better off with two functional parents where they do not observe fighting or abuse than to learn this as the way to treat their future partners! I would urge people not to judge, especially without seeing what goes on in such homes. With that, an easy and meaningful fast to all, and may Hashem send Masiach quickly!
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