Jent,
No one said tznius should be disregarded, dotn drei a kop! I just think the logic goes both ways. A man should busy himself on HIS side of the mechitzah and nothing will lead to hirhur!
Furthermore, if women would start dressing like Reb Arele’s Chassidim, imagine how many fo their husbands would start having roving eyes Chas Visholom.
Vchai bohem means you should ‘live with the mitzvos your doing and try to make it as pleasurable as possible.
You say:.those men who wear short pants usually their wives wear pants ,also shott ones and sleeveless so whats your …..
RIDICULOUS!!!!