People will always try to push the limits of what is acceptable. It is the job of our Rabbonim not to be our friends and cavort with the “guys” but to admonish us and push us in the right direction.
For many Rabbonim fear of losing their job dictates their response and for others it is fear of losing the kovod they enjoy as a Rav.
On the flip side, there are Rabbonim who have sacrificed their own jobs and associations by crying out about this shameful situation. Unfortunately, they are in the minority.
It is our job not to protest anonymously on sites such as this one but to voice our opinion in a more public forum.
The kiddush in question haad goyisha male waiters who spent half of davening in the womens section.I wonder why that is ok?