rebyidd23 how? by living in lakewood which according to everybody is “supposed to be yeshivish” and people who live here and do things and wear clothing or anything that would make you look diffrent than most of the town or at least the part that runs the schooling system …those people ..the parents should think before becoming “open minded” that they live in lakewood and they should try to conform that way theyre kids will get into school.
to bored on the job first of all look in the rambam hilchos dais what he talks about hashpaas and look in other mussar seforim also we are not sacrificing them they are sacrificing themselves