Yichusdik, earlier you seemed to say that it would be hypocritical. You wrote:
No, DY. If the individual donor is too treif to daven at your omud, or his kids are not holy enough to be in your school, or his wife isnt tzniyus enough to pick up her kids at your door, then it is hypocritical and self defeating to accept money that is by those heilige standards, tamei.
See, I am not disagreeing with you about the abhorrence of the elitist attitude some have, or about the fact that the schools should stand their ground against it. You tacked on, though, a diatribe against the hypocrisy of accepting donations from people they wouldn’t accept, and that’s really not the issue.