Joseph, not everyone is on Avrohom Avinu’s or your level; not unless you’re a malach. But we are humans and even tzadikim notice other people.
True story: When I was in yeshiva in the 60’s (won’t mention which one but it was in Baltimore), a bochur, let’s call him “Yosef”, was in the waiting room of a doctor’s office and also seated was the Rosh Yeshiva. Later that day an eltere bocher says to “Yosef” that the Rosh Yeshiva was upset that “Yosef” didn’t offer the Rosh Yeshiva to change seats with him since the Rosh Yeshiva was sitting next to a girl and it didn’t pas. “Yosef” responds that the Rosh Yeshiva was sitting next to a lamp, not a girl.
So Joseph, obviously you are on the Rosh Yeshiva’s level, but again most of us are of this world.