Shekerm ” whats the big deal calling chashuva women “rabbi”.??”
Why are you upset that they are called Rebbetzin? like Rebbetzin Zahava Braunstein, or (lehavdil) Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis. Do you want women to be called Mr. instead of Mrs. also?
No reason to be ashamed of the title Rebbetzin, there are some very Choshuva women with the title.