I meant from my end, since the post was directed at me.
I guess it’s your choice, but I don’t think you need to be offended. It is undoubtedly true that the percentage of people who can afford to make lavish weddings who do is higher than the people who can’t and admit that they would if they could.
You might be from the minority who would make the same wedding no matter what, but I think CTL’s observation that many say they wouldn’t simply because they can’t afford to is correct.