Coffee: I was not going to post in such a random thread as this one, but you unwittingly brought me a smile when you wrote “heels are not m’akev”. True. They are m’ekev! (yado ochezes ba’akev esov…).
To the OP: Dont worry about your height differences. The way you obviously lead your wife, I mean life, she will bring you to your knees and then you’ll be on the same level anyways! ☺