I am a gabbai in my shul.
We make a misheberach for the cholim avery time we lain.
Some of the names I come across are unbelievable.
Rabbi Moshe Weinberger in one of his tapes lists all the aveiros that parents are oiver everytime their child suffers embarrasment from their name.
Parents do what is best for the child.
The child was not put on this earth to suffer permanently just to feed some family members ego.