Thanks for your words of chizuk, and yes, I do realize that people are very busy, but there is no need to be rude. If they find it gets to be too much, than leave the work to someone else. However, I still feel that the best boys are redd only to girls who come from certain “types’ of backgrounds and are promised certain things. (and I can vouch for this because I married off boys and every shadchan called with the same names). I don’t want to put the blame solely on the shadchannim , mother’s of sons also want to ‘auction’ their sons to the highest bidder, and make sure that they will be taken care of forever and ever.
