You are two halves of one whole. Would your right hand refuse to share with your left hand?
Your analogy is flawed, of course, because your two hands don’t have their own identities and personalities.
You see, Joseph, you can choose to share everything with your spouse if you want to. But one thing I’ve learned over the years is that what works for one couple does not work for every couple.
If sharing everything works between you and your wife — God bless you both. However, for some couples, oversharing is a bad thing — and unless you’re privy to the dynamics of their marriage and personalities, then it’s rather presumptuous of you to demand of them why they don’t.
The Wolf