It is a sad situation. I know someone who was in jail for a few years, murder or something, and she just can’t find a shiduch. I recently was speaking to a boy and I said, “I don’t understand. Why don’t you just marry her and be happy about it?”, but he still refused, and then complains I’m not helping him out enough. It’s ridiculous.
It happens to be that I later found out that this girl didn’t have as much money as I thought she did, so he was right for declining, but he didn’t know that bishas ma’aseh. And then he wants to know why he’s still single.