Avram
Again i am not talking about the leaders, i am talking about the lay people. You dont need to show Avi Weiss the beauty of torah lifestyle, you need to show the people who attend these places the beauty so they will attend your shuls and the OO places will close of their own free volution.
I do not support attacking the Avi Weisses is not because he is right, but because the lay people can get protective of their rabbi and will take an attack on him as an attack on themselves,
The difference between my approach and the Moetzes is I want to show people the postive points of view and not the negative points of view