YOu bring up some very good points in your post.
However I would like to know why on earth you would put your real name here on an Anonymous forum…
If you are trying to re-connect with someone you think you might know, keep in mind that people should be weary of impersonation. You could be impersonating someone in order to find out who a particular poster is.. I am not saying you are I am just bringing it up for the naive ones out there that might not nes understand the dangers… -All I am saying is CAUTION!!