“Is she MO?”
What does that have to do with anything? A woman is the Akeret Habayit, mainstay of the home. She should be in charge of the day to day at home.
A man’s main occupations should be learning, tefillah in shul, and parnassa. When a wife gets in the way of those, then and only then could there be a problem.
If you desire that which is not yours, you will not only not get that other, you will lose you own. Don’t worry about someone else’s tafkid.