Joseph: Akuperma is describing the prenup perfectly. Learn Kesubos. It’s not penalizing anyone. It’s just a legal contract that the husband will pay Mezonos until the Get is given, which is Halachic requirement. There is no such requirement for a wife who refuses a Get. She would be a Moredes and Beis Din would waive her Kesuba. You don’t need a legal document enforcing that.
“And additionally it mandates using a beit din that has a reputation for issuing decisions that are based on popular feminist views and follow secular law over halacha when the two differ.”
This statement is false on several counts. First of all, it does not mandate using the BDA. It mandates pre-agreeing on a Beis Din before the marriage. It just so happens that most people who use a prenup agree on the BDA. Secondly, your statement that the BDA follows secular law over Halachah is absurd Motzi Shem Ra and I’m disgusted that the mods let it through. If you have a source for that, bring it. Otherwise, maybe call them and ask for Mechilah.