Mir Rosh Yeshiva, Hagaon Rav Chaim Shmulevitz Zatzal
“Our rabbi’s teach a man to honor his wife more than he would himself, while a wife is deemed virtuous if she does the will of her husband.
As long as the husband abides by the former and the wife by the latter, their home will be blessed with marital bliss.
It is when they switch roles the wife demanding love and respect and the husband expecting total subservience – that the troubles begin!”
Rav Chaim Shmulevitz Zatzal quoted in Sefer Torah Tavlin