I’m not claiming any rights.
I’m not making any Halachic arguments.
Im not trying to win or debate or poskin anything.
I’m only trying to help wolf come to a decision by pointing out the obvious.
That there is more to communication between people than the mere recital of words.
Besides facial expressions and body motions which may not have a schichus here, there is enunciation, inflection, tonality, “nigun”, spirit, and so on which are reflections of the mind, of kavana.
There is also a deeper, more nebulous “something” spiritual that comes from a direct connection between Neshamos. Did you ever hear someone speaking “from the heart”. Even if he is a poor orator, a tznua in facial and body motions, even if you don’t understand much of what he is saying, it has an impact.
All this has an effect on the listener which in turn has an effect on the listener’s response.
I could go on for a long time but I really was trying to avoid spending time on this that should be obvious, and beginning another cycle of empty back and forth with no toeles.