” Maybe she should should first do some research why his ex is missing a nose, a couple of broken bones, full of marks.. Not really, he says he going to “manage” his anger from now on.”
if that is a joke i think it is in very poor taste. if it isnt a joke i think it is very unfair to accuse a person who took anger management of being physically abusive. there are very good people out there who have short tempers when under horrible stress, which a bad marriage tends to be.
anger isn’t something to overlook, but presenting all people who have worked on themselves as closet abusers can be very damaging to some very good people.
i know more than a handful of people who were monsters in their bad marriages and are wonderful people in their second marriages. it needs to be investigated, not discounted.