anonymisss my posts didnt get posted for some reason. basically its a fact of life that people will say stupid things and usually it’ll happen at what seems like the worst possibble time. remeber that whatever youre going through just keep on teling yourself that its a kaparah (I even heard one time that you can have in mind exactly what thing you would like it to be a zchus for) and Hashem is with you. there is an article (an email type) that talks of a person after he dies and hes remembering the events in his life and he says whenever things were good in my life he sees two sets of footsteps and Hashem responds by saying that they were walking together. then the man asks what happened when he went through the hard times, there was only one step of footsteps, how could Hashem leave him in his time of need. and Hashem says, he didnt leave him, he was carrying him. keep in mind that He loves you and this is as hard for him as it is for you, if not harder. I give you my sincere bracha that Hashem grant you with menuchas hanefesh and a tremendous amount of simcha for good. :):):):):)
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