My wife has been involved over the past 20 years in shidduchim ( not professionally ) and the biggest single frustration she faces is the refusal on the part of either the man or woman to even meet each other once, especially after having gone thru an extensive vetting process. She’s even been asked what the woman’s siblings do for a living. Thru our shul, she has organized Single Shabbatons for older singles that have produced a number of marraiges over the years. According to our Rav, she was rewarded for all her efforts in the best way possible. Our daughter met her bashert on her very first shidduch date.
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