So no one should play sports….there is always a loser. (sorry OBBL)
Schools shouldn’t have spelling bees…there is only one winner.
I was in camps for 15+ years….sometimes I won color war and sometimes I lost. It was fun being part of a team. Winning and losing color war (or a league game, or any other contest/event) means a lot less than learning team work. It has to be put into the proper perspective.
Now as an adult, whether at work or recreationaly, i know the concept of “team player”.