Scareddd, I’m not sure I understand your post.
Are you saying that-
Feminists want fat, poor girls to get married.
But if not for the efforts (?) of these feminists, girls who are fat, or poor, or some combination of the two, would not get married?
And so you’re saying good middos are some sort of fantasy/propaganda invented by feminists?
Or what?
Oomis thinks your remark was a bit insensitive.
I’m not understanding oomis either.
A bit?
(I always thought feminists were davka the ones who wanted girls- fat, poor, skinny, rich, or whatever sort- to get good jobs, good educations, good pay. Since when are they mixing into shidduchim?)