Its amazing how many chumras and protections one will go to not to eat trief, but are willing to be real Makil when it comes to an Abuser they are “Willing to give them the benefit of the doubt”
If someone was a butcher and “accidently” sold trief meat, would you be so forgiving?
ZD – Nobody is “Makil” when it comes to an Abuser. They are Machmir. There are ??? ???? issurim potentially involved in reporting a suspected crime to the government. Both ??? ??? ?????? ???? ??? ?????. Being Makil means not thinking before you speak.
And nobody is ever willing to give an abuser the benefit of the doubt. Nobody says that an abuser is accidental.
The only slight “????? ????” is that they are to be pitied for finding themselves at the matzav they are. It isn’t totally self-caused.