Sam: IIRC you were the one who tried to avoid music at dinner time. With all due respect, IMHO something has caused you to become more cynical lately and it would be wise for you to address (not here) whatever it is. If I’m wrong I beg your mechilah, as I don’t want to hurt you and don’t know you IRL to care one way or another, just thought perhaps you are unaware.
Regarding Haagen Daazs you don’t honestly think that even if Chalav Stam is okay, every Yid needs to taste every Kosher food/ ice cream out there in order to follow the dictum of enjoying Hashem’s world?