oh ho old man, your racism seems to have gotten the better of you! I never learned a daf in my life, and never went to yeshiva!
I am a WOMAN, middle aged, who grew up modern orthodox. I wore shorts and pants til I was 14, I grew up on tv, movies and trashy novels that have filled my head with things that will never disappear no matter how had I try. I watched R rated movies that have left life long impressions on me. I have three friends who are divorced due to their or their husband’s pornography addictions or online chats with people who promised to give them a better life than their own spouse gave them.
I have a filter on my internet because nobody is immune. I don’t find myself yearning for inappropriate pictures. Neither do my kids, B”H. But when half dressed women with their boyfriends show up as a cover story on the news, even the modernest orthodox find themselves spending a second too long looking at it. I would know, I used to spend a lot of time with such guys when I was that age. And I hate to tell you what they were spending their time on.
I waste my breath answering you because your ears are shut, just venom for the yeshivish, black hat, dude you assumed (knew?) I was.
If you really can find yourself faced with a screen showing two 20 year old girls in bathing suits without taking notice, than maybe I don’t feel sorry for your grandchildren, maybe it’s your wife I should pity.