The mark of a Jew is that we control our desires and channel them into serving Hashem according to the Torah and our Mesorah.
For example, a Jew who has homosexual desires can be a Rabbi in a community too small to support a Rabbi with a family. Or he can learn Torah to the exclusion of anything else in his life. And every time he doesn’t do what he wants to do, he makes a kiddush Hashem and brings kedusha into the world.