Guys – i think you’ve all got the wrong end of the stick. Bar Shatya is making a point completely the opposite – how people don’t marry attractive wives because they are scared they will be labelled trophy wives, and prefer the opposite kind.
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I think only of pnimius. I deserve a wife who everyone will look at and know that I will be the next gadol hador. I have got the fattest wife in town.