Remember that comment that you made about rav Moshe, zt’l, and how Torah protects kinderlach outside the house??
I think there was much more to what Rav Moshe was saying.
Otherwise how could we have lost such a pure innocent neshomah like the one we lost a year and a half ago???
There must be more.
I think it’s more important to make sure you’ve learned properly whatever you’ve learned (your thoughts) before correcting your actions.
Actions stem from thought. If the thoughts are corrupt or twisted, so the actions will be too.