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When we don’t look too closely at who’s asking we hope that Hashem will provide for us likewise even if we may be undeserving.
Nice concept, but that is not a Jewish one. From the Gemorah BB 9b:
? ?????? ????? ??? ???? ??? ??? ????? (?????? ??) ????? ??????? ????? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ????? ???? ????? ???? ??? ????? ?? ???? [?????] ???? ?????? ?? ???? ??????? ????? ???? ????? ?????? ???? ??? ????? ??????? ??? ??? ????? ????? ???
Another one from the Rambam, also the Gemorah BB 7a:
??? ???? ?????? ????, ???? ??? ???, ????????–??? ?????? ????? ??? ???? ???, ??? ??????? ???? ???. ??? ????, ???? ?????–?????? ????? ??? ???? ???; ??? ??? ?????? ????–????? ???? ??? ????? ???, ???? ?????? ?????.