shaule,
why thank you for admitting to my point.
However your wrong, i was in a resteraunt the other night. and i was sitting in the corner and observing the scene. this is what was going on:
there were a couple of tables of men eating there dinner, do to the fact their very clever wives went to the country for the summer(that’s a total different issue in tzniyus), anyway a ‘shikse’ walked in and im not exagerating, every single guy stopped eating and starred at this ‘shikse’.
so shaule i have a question for you: is it this ‘shikse’s’ issue or the mens issue?
dont you think they should heve kept their noses in their plates??
and yes its true the yetzer hora is really strong. but you got to fight it.
just a total side point regarding the issue of leaving men at home in the city:
it use to be around 5-10 years ago, for a woman or a man to go find shmutz they had to go out of their way. now however the tumah is litteraly sticking to us! by one press of a button you have an intire world of tumah! men and women do not have to go far! honestly i dont know why leaving your husband in the city is not band, but atleast niave ladies WAKE UP!!!
and im not trying to sound like a tzdaykus and all, but tzniyus to me is my main priority. so thank you for the insult.