The problem in the frum world is like this. Single Girls will not talk to Boys, Men which is great, but when these single girls get married, they cant stop talking to men, which is against Pirkei Avos and Shulchan Aruch, yet we see this happening in the very frum communities. Shulchan Aruch does not diffrentiate between a single girl or married one. Pirkei Avos is talking about married people. Marriage does not give women the right to talk to whoever she wants because she is married and there is no threat. This is why divorce happens in the Frum community because men and women are using marriage as an excuse to talk to whoever they want. I, Being Yeshivish went to a Yeshivish Wedding in a Chassidish Hall In Borpopark with separate entrances, separate everything, yet married men and married women were going to the other side of the mechitza introducing and speaking to other people’s husbands and wives. The purpose of the Mechitza was destroyed. This was Mamash disgusting and a huge Busha to Klal Yisrael. Tight clothes is not tznius and too much makeup is not either. Chumras are great, but Kulas in such an important halachick matter is just wrong. Single girls continue being Frum and talk and be only around girls. Married women talk to your husbands, pretend that you are single and that the only man you can talk to is your husband, so marriages will last and halacha will be followed, which will ultimately bringing closer to the geula.
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