yeah, I feel the same way. I’m a young girl in shidduchim, and looking for a boy who learns and works. Everyone says the same thing, that if a boy is working, he’s modern and not the typical good boy. I’m a good girl and definitely not looking for a modern boy, but looking for someone who is koveya itim and works…… does such a thing exist?
could a boy work and still be a “good boy?”