A nine year old is a NINE year old! How on earth SHOULD she feel????? She didn’t ask your you to bring in her replacement (and that is probably exactly how she feels). It’s a truly noble thing you have done,but she is your first priority. Please don’t let her get lost in the shuffle. Chessed is a wonderful and meaningful thing, but not when it comes on the “plaitzes” of your own very young child, who BTW, will not leave you as an empty nester B”EH for many years. You could all benefit from family counseling, in my opinion. I do admire your generous spirit that impelled you to do this.
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