Francorachel, there isn’t much you can do about the way others behave- or misbehave- in shul. As many others have suggested, finding a different place to daven is a good option. There are B”H many shuls where talking during davening is not a problem, and you can hear a pin drop even while waiting for someone to walk up for an aliya.
If there are no other shuls where you live, there may be a strong argument that you’re better off davening at home if you’re a woman. I hope you (and other posters) don’t take issue with this. Don’t take my word for it! Ask someone you feel comfortable entrusting with the proper care and performance of your spiritual obligations.