Before a husband does housework he should be matneh that it’s for chessed (which it is). Otherwise, it’s a reversal of gender roles, pas nisht and probably assur.
Yet another proof that I am the lowest human being on the planet. I attempt to help my wife and, in fact, I’m committing a sin — spitting in God’s face, so to speak.
I am the lowest, most vile person on the planet.
The Wolf