i think that it has to start at a young age forget for a sec ur husband work on ur kids there is no diffrence in jobs in my house between my boys and girl sometimes sb hears me telling one of my boys to do st they are like ur son will do that and i say y not just because he is a boy? believe me i”yh ur daughter in laws will appreciate u that her husband wont say i dont know how to do that
there is no reason y if both husband and wife the husband can share the responsibilties of the house work and if the wife is a stay at home 24hr working in the house the job never gets done and nothing will happen if he lends a hand especially after a baby… and that joke about breaking a plate every badchin says at weddings and the story of the man looking for segula for shalom bayis folding his tallis..the rav said every motzei shabbos grab a broom its very good for shalom bayis