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Sometimes a person can learn better through osmosis by observing actions rather than by being given mussar.
The R”Y saw that the talmid felt so adamantly that it was beneath his kavod to do “menial” tasks. But the R”Y felt differently.
Imagine the talmid’s dismay to see his beloved R”Y taking out his banana peels.
I imagine the talmid absorbed the lesson well.
(A ??? should not walk around with stains on his clothing, but that’s a different principle than helping one’s wife.)
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Interesting to note, that the home is a “mikdash miat ???? ???.”
The ?????? saw it as a supreme privilege to do any work related to the ??? ?????, even the “menial.” Non-kohanim were not allowed to do this “menial” work.
FOOD FOR THOUGHT!
In addition, helping usually increases ???? ??? and is great ????? for the kids if there are any there.