DY regarding point 1I copied from the other post on this subject
They’re not the same discussions; the overall policy is not the same as how it’s implemented in particular cases. Regardless, nobody has a “right” to take offense at innocent things. Your analogy is flawed, because those who claim to be offended are not the intended audience, and undoubtedly only look at frum papers to stir up trouble. Daily, there are countless other seriously offensive items published in various media which go practically unnoticed; the motive here is, or should be, obvious.
Regarding point two I’ll just quote golfer: “Still, it’s easier to refrain from publishing any photos of ladies, than to have to sit in judgment and then offend by publishing a photo of this rebbetzin and not that one.”
“Easy” has little to do with how much time it takes or how physically tedious it is.