“Yes one should realize hashem is in charge, however one is forbidden from standing in the middle of the BQE and saying hashem is in charge and will protect me from harm.”
You realize that this is an inane comparison.
No sane person would consider living in a house without enough smoke detectors the same as standing in the middle of a highway. It is not even similar to driving in a car without wearing a seatbelt.
A more apt comparison would be sitting in a backseat with out a seatbelt and then being hit by a drunk driver.
While it is a good idea and also something one should also use this as a reminder about smoke detectors, it is surely not the main message being presented to us.
And one does not have to be Da’as Torah to undesstand that, they just have to have a little Da’as and some basic emunah to see it.