Rabbonim frequently remark that it is not a wife’s role to be her husband’s mashgiach (or as R’ Shais Taub put it in one column, his parole officer). More generally, getting angry at one’s spouse or trying to forcefully pressure them to do something, especially if it is a religious matter, may not be a good idea. I strongly recommend you read the popular shalom bayis manual Garden of Peace by R’ Shalom Arush (I’ve only read the men’s version but I can tell you from experience that it works wonders — I truly believe it is 100% emes).
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