Joseph: The party is celebrating their being together as a couple. It’s not explicitly (or even implicitly, nowadays) celebrating a Maaseh Aveirah. They’re being Oveir without the ability to have a wedding. This isn’t 100 years ago when not being “married” would stop people from performing Maaseh Aveiros. Nowadays, it’s just a huge party and waste of money. I don’t hear it.
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