GAW said,
” today’s typical yeshiva bochur is decadent, materialistic, does not feel responsible for themselves or their families, and expects much from others (including their shver, which is where we had the discussion) with a Magiah Li attitude.
That being said, many do learn most of the day, and in their defense, they have been taught that what they are doing is correct. “
Do you believe that they have been taught that way from just their parents? My guess is that the yeshiva system contributes to that attitude. When one is taught that learning Torah is the best thing and one should support learners, then a bochur can easily think “I’m doing the best and people should support me. Any bracha you have is because of me, so support me well!”