ubiquitin: Like every other thread, it was an extension of a conversation, in that, people put too much emphasis on the external and look down on others that don’t see it the same way.
BTW, I do wear a black hat but have no problem with others who do not.
mw13: You don’t give mussar to someone who won’t accept it. Also, whoever does give mussar should have the tact to do it correctly, otherwise you just do more harm.
“we should not be silent when someone makes a Chilul Hashem and harms people as well.”
I said this with the thought of people making excuses or denying when faced with overwhelming evidence, for criminal behavior, including molestation’s when someone is from a group they identify with.